I am not saying my life was devoid of books. I recall staying with a distant uncle who gave me a large book bound in orange leatherette, I thought it so elegant. I treasured it and even slept with it. I also remember always enjoying the feel of carrying my school books, and excitement as I turned the pages. Never did I envision them being such an important part of my life.
After school I did not touch a book for a decade, until I met my would be husband. He would tell me about the books he was reading, one per week. Our first date was on a cold rainy weekend so I went to the bookstore-I was in heaven with all the empty, beautifully bound journals, my weakness, and then all the books-what to choose. I purchased the first two Bourne epics by Robert Ludlum. Luckily, Tom had two couches. I filled the coffee table with munchies and we spent the entire weekend reading-great first date.
I have been reading and collecting books since that weekend, and I am now half way through my second book. I treasure the friendships I have made as a result of books.
What of “the kids”? They are still in my life. We keep in touch on social media and have reunions every four years, and I always bring books to give as gifts.
Laura Davis says
Nancy, what a great description of a unique first date between two
compatible readers. How wonderful to establish that kind of easy
comfort right from the beginning! Thanks for sharing this story. I could
really see your Uncle’s gift and imagine you treasuring it.
This felt very cozy Nancy, thank you for sharing!
Jane says
Jane says
Dear Nancy,
What a happy, healthy outdoors youth you were privileged to enjoy, near the amazing White Sands hill dunes! That is one of my favorite places in the US.
I was moved to be reading the magical tale about the beautiful book your Uncle gifted to you, and how you curled up with your treasured book in bed at night. Then the perfect date with the right guy for you.
Kismet!
Thank you for this lovely writing.
Beverly Boyd says
What a happy, healthy outdoors youth you were privileged to enjoy, near the amazing White Sands hill dunes! That is one of my favorite places in the US.
I was moved to be reading the magical tale about the beautiful book your Uncle gifted to you, and how you curled up with your treasured book in bed at night. Then the perfect date with the right guy for you.
Kismet!
Thank you for this lovely writing.
Beverly Boyd says
Hi Nancy,
I loved your description of life in the desert exploring with your friends.
A good read!
I loved your description of life in the desert exploring with your friends.
A good read!
Nancy, I love your merging of your ‘loves’, the ‘beautiful, bound
journals’ and the books, which became a beautiful way to connect with
your now husband. Thank you for sharing this!
Judy says
Judy says
Nancy, I enjoyed your piece and giggled as I read of your first
date with your husband. My husband of 30 years and I shared a similar
experience and to this day we still read aloud to each other. This
line….”beautifully bound journals, my weakness,” shouted to me and
further anchored me in your piece. Well done. Thank you and I look
forward to more.
Nancy, I loved hearing about your first date. The idea of lounging
on a couch and reading Bourne books and snacking sounds like heaven to
me. Thank you for sharing.
What a great first date! I visited White Sands when I was a kid, racing up and down the dunes with my sisters. Great memories with my godfather who drove us practically all over the state of New Mexico to see all the sights.
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